A Lifetime Journey: Thoughts

今天

Fri, 23 May 2008 07:04:06 GMT

今天晴空万里，今天无数面五星红旗在这里飘扬，今天奥运圣火在上海传递！

(脸上贴着小红旗的可爱小妹妹）

风雨过后，必定会有彩虹！

中国的明天一定更好！

点名游戏

Thu, 23 Aug 2007 07:02:04 GMT

0. 现在对自己最重要的是什么？------- 目前来说，拼命赚钱（咳，苦命的孩子！）

1. 你觉得远距离的恋爱会有结果吗？如果是你，你怎么做？------- 肯定会有，对我比较难（因为比较花心，诚实吧）
2. 在你眼里我是一个怎样的人？------- 随遇而安

3. 你现在住在哪个城市，如果能够选择，你希望住在哪里？------- 上海目前是希腊岛屿（继续搜寻中）

4. 如果现在可以让你随心所欲去旅行，你想去哪？------- 古巴（听朋友说很不错）

5. 给你一个机会，你会一夜情或婚外情吗？------- 保密，这个只能告诉未来老公的。

6. 最不喜欢什么类型的人？------- 做作，虚伪

7. 会不会做饭？你希望你的伴侣（未来的伴侣）会做饭吗？------- 会（现在会烧几国菜了）肯定要（要他一起做）

8. 如果看到自己最爱的人熟睡在你面前你会做什么？------- 如果自己也累了，会陪他一起睡。如果不累，会在他醒来之前，给个惊喜

9. 如果你爱的人不爱你怎么办？------- 祝福他幸福，然后独自一人去旅行。

10. 你msn现用的“名称”是什么，有什么含义? ------- A lifetime Journey 希望以旅行的态度生活

11. 你认为有爱无性和有性无爱哪个会更难以接受？------- 不同的阶段，不同的想法
12. 你最怀念的一段时光是什么？------- 学校里的时光（不管是小学，中学还是大学）

13. 你最喜欢你伴侣的什么？如果没有，你希望你的伴侣具有什么品质？------- 能大度，也能体贴

14. 谈谈你最近在听的音乐？------- Crazy-Simple Plan, Gwen Stefani

15. 你会选择你爱的人还是爱你的人？------- 爱我的人

16. 你觉得自己哪方面性格特征对别人最有吸引力？------- 典型的天蝎座的性格

17. 最近最让你迷惘的事情是什么？------- any changes before the end of year

18. 如果暗恋她（他），你敢说出口吗？------- 念书的时候不会，现在肯定会

19. 你的身高和体重？用数字说话？------- 166 52

20. 你可以接受比你小（大）的男生（女生）吗？须具体说明 ------- 会，只要相爱就行

21. 当你对很重要的事情感到力不从心时，怎么处理？------- 找好友倾诉，不过最后还是自己决定怎么做

22. 你认为怎么样才算幸福的生活？------- 保持一颗年轻的心

23. 你最喜欢吃的五种食物是什么？------- 柠檬加冰水，清茶，酸奶，烤肉，没有骨头的鱼

24. 如果发现自己的另一半出轨了会怎么办？------- 这个只有未来老公知道了

25. 最近在看什么书？------- (Lonely Planet) Belgium & Germany

26. 许三个愿望 ------- 身体健康，去各地旅行，30岁之前把自己嫁了

去掉的题目是21，增加的问题：你觉得2个人最开心的时候是什么时候？

呵呵~~谢谢小汤，轮到我点名了（超过7个人哦）！ Becky, David, Maggie, Lucy, Angelique, Daniel, Rocklover, Nick, Reggie, Henry

搬家了

Sat, 04 Aug 2007 09:56:14 GMT

最近刚搬家，网也上不了，俄罗斯归来，有很多感想，争取下周跟大家分享。不过有一句话不得不说，非常讨厌跟团！！希望以后就算地方危险，语言不通，也再不想跟团。

工作vs旅行

Tue, 27 Mar 2007 03:22:16 GMT

时间过的好快，一转眼，又是三月底了，天气渐渐暖和起来，我喜欢阳光明媚的春天，心情爽朗，不过对于我，夏天才是最心仪的季节。工作又进入了朝九晚六的状态，忙碌也是难免的，想想得赚足了钱，才能痛快的玩。但是工作好像永远都做不完，每次旅行回来，都会告诉自己，要好好静下心，努力工作。但这样的状态不会超过1周，1周后，我又在计划下一站去哪里旅行，已经被很多人问起，5月份的旅行计划，但是首先得把工作摆平，时间的安排是最重要的。非常期望能够在4月初定下旅行的行程。工作vs旅行，缺了哪一样，对我来说都不行。

A New Start 新开始

Sat, 22 Jul 2006 13:43:06 GMT

也许我的生活从未曾平静过，总是在跌跌宕宕中，失去一些，又得到一些。每一次的改变，都不是我所能预见的，但却给了我机会去体验不同的经历，让我对生活又增添了不少新的诠释。过去的是把它留在记忆里的，未来才是我所关注的。也许我并不是一个很怀旧的人，旧的人，旧的事，过去的可以回忆，但绝不重蹈覆辙。也许眼前的路还没有明了，但是我知道，I'm ready for the New Start!

MOMENT

Sat, 06 Aug 2005 16:57:13 GMT

It's humbling to reflect on the places I have traveled to and to think that right now life is continuing as it had the moment I was there. It seemed to make my way anonymously through what seemed like an endless stream of unfamiliar lands. Visiting the landmarks, seeing the sites, meeting people from time to time. Sharing experiences with them that would only last as long as the moment allowed it to. Moments I enjoyed and like to look back on, however they are slowly fading from my memory and loosing the emotion that once came along with them. It's kind of depressing to think that once a moment meant so much to me, and now after time it seems to mean nothing at all. Sure the memory of the larger event is there, but it's the small moments that I can't recall. Those while I was living them that seemed almost perfect. If I were to return to the places where these moments occurred, would I be able to capture a glimpse of the past moment, or is it simply a new moment destined to be a vague memory?

Life then as I am understanding it, is simply full of moments that we share with whoever or whatever is with us at the time. What makes one life better than another when all that has happened is the living of moments passed? Is it that the moments past will determine the moments in the future? And how fulfilling each of those future moments will be?

It seems it's too much to ask to expect more from the experiences that I have had. They are simply moments in time that I was blessed to be able to enjoy for the time that they lasted. I wonder if when I'm an old woman about to breathe my last breath if I will accept the moment for what it is and enjoy it.

For now my moments continue so I guess all I can do is to enjoy them for what they are and try to make the most out of them. An almost impossible task as we are all well aware of. But it's a nice thought at least. Maybe the key is to never live with regrets. Something I would like to think that I can say I'd heed to. But then I will often find myself thinking and wish in that one moment I had said this, or made a move when I held back. Maybe in that case the key is, recognizing in that moment that I'm feeling regret, understanding what the emotion is. it's bringing up inside me, and letting it slide as simply a moment.

I guess then the age old Buddhist proverb of the monk being chased by the lion has a lot of relevance. The monk found the time right before his death to enjoy that single moment and eat the strawberry he saw sitting in front of him.

Ah, the never ending saga of the moment. Well this moment is here right now while I'm writing this. I guess if I didn't want to be, then I would be doing something else with my moment.

So on I continue to live my moments and hopefully to enjoy them as they are. Simply a moment in a day, a week, a year and a life time is to remember to make the most of the moments I'm living.